Getting the Man's Trust
Trust is something that every relationship must have. Problems are shared by friends. They trust that no matter what happens, the secrets that they talk about are safe in each other's hearts. On the other hand, children and parents can trust each other that there will be problems along the way. Parents will get really annoyed at their kids at a certain time of their lives. The children, for their part, will experience the same thing, too.
Engaging in an online relationship is going to be a difficult thing to handle. Most of the time, people who are dating online live in two different continents. The other might be living in the South pole, while the other is located in the North. One can just imagine the strain that such a relationship is going to have on the couple. That is not going to bode well, especially, if one or both parties are paranoid. Worrying about the relationship is fine. However, one must not dwell too much on one's paranoia. Trust can do a lot of wonders for the relationship. Paranoia and suspicion might just as well kill the fire that is burning in the relationship.
One might be overly attracted and interested to his/her partner. However, the relationship can die quickly if trust is not present. One must remember that online dating makes it possible for an individual to become anonymous. Therefore, that fact alone could make a person worry or get paranoid if the person, whom she is dating online, is being a true person and not just a fraud. This goes without saying that such a scenario is one of the causes for concern among couples all over the world. Lack of trust goes both ways. If the man does not trust his partners, then the woman would most probably wonder why on earth she should trust a man who doesn't trust her. Given that scenario, a relationship can be predicted to end in doom sake. Now, one should never fear. There are several ways that a woman can earn the trust of a man.
The first thing to be done is for the woman to be transparent. However, it must be reiterated that mystery should still be a part of the relationship. This is to ensure that the couple won't get bored with each other because of too much predictability. It doesn't hurt to be open and honest to one's partner. However, a woman should learn when she should stop confiding. She should know whether she has said too much or if she hasn't said anything at all. In return, the man will learn to open up, too. It's just a matter of give and take.
Men like it when they feel all masculine around the woman. As much as possible, men want to be always there for their woman. So, it would be utterly all right for the women to show that there are things that they cannot do. Rest assured, the men won't find the women weak. In fact, they will try to do everything in their power to assist the woman that they like. That's how the male ego works. They feel so much better when they know that they have done something for the woman. So, the women are advised to indulge the ego of their partners. Ask for their opinion. Show them that they matter. Make them feel that their opinion counts. Also, women are advised to make their partners feel that they can be counted on, when the man needs someone to talk to, or just a shoulder to lean on. Men are typically not the type to confide so much in a woman. Therefore, it can be said that the woman has earned her man's trust when the man is comfortable about sharing his problems with his woman. Ladies are advised to lessen any inhibitions that they might have. Show the men that their judgment and intentions are trusted. In return, the men will do the same.
Internet dating is synonymous to bouts of anonymity. One must confess that pretending to be someone that he/she is not can be quite a tempting offer. However, pretensions will never get a person anywhere, be it in relationships or not. Thus, everyone is advised to stick to the facts. It is true that women have vivid imagination. However, they should not let themselves be carried away by their stories. A woman might be telling stories that may never have happened, just for the sake of having a conversation going on. Now, such a scenario must definitely be avoided. Men do have sharp memories. Men can really remember everything that a woman has said, most especially, if he is interested in what the woman has to say. One can just imagine the woman's dilemma if the man noticed that some of her stories aren't true. How on earth can the woman explain to her man that she just got carried away? Of course, it wouldn't be surprising if the man thought that the woman was downright lying. Thus, women and men should be careful when telling stories. People should think before they speak. In this way, complications for the relationship will not follow because neither of the parties involved twisted the true story.
Of course, one of the best ways that a woman can earn the trust of the man is by showing him how much she truly cares for her man. A woman can do this by checking on her man every so often. The man will feel that his woman is always thinking of him and no one else. Say for example that the man is sick. What the woman could do is to send her man an email or e-card telling him to get well soon. Also, a woman could show her feelings for a man is by being a lover and a friend at the same time. This means that the women should always act naturally towards a man. In this manner, the man won't feel that the woman is just pretending to be nice to him.
Lastly, a woman giving a man copies of her latest photos can somehow earn the trust of the man. This act will tell the man that the woman isn't hiding anything, not even her face, or her personality. Women may give their number to the man if she is already comfortable with him and if she is confident that the man himself is trustworthy. Giving one's contact number will give the impression that the woman is saying who she really is. Besides, it will only show that the woman is ready to have serious talks with the man, outside of the internet world. From there, it is possible that the man will see the relationship in a whole new level.
Women should be reminded that trust is hard to earn, but easy to lose. Thus, one should take care not to ruin the trust that the guy has given her. The guy may be thousands of miles away. However, it is not right for the woman to think that she can fool around since her man is away. It is true that there are some men who are just after sex. However, not all men are like that. Women should still remember that there are still knights-in-shining-armor who would do anything to rescue a damsel in distress. So, women should stay away from trouble and any temptations lurking nearby. She just might lose a guy who could have taken very good care of her.
Engaging in an online relationship is going to be a difficult thing to handle. Most of the time, people who are dating online live in two different continents. The other might be living in the South pole, while the other is located in the North. One can just imagine the strain that such a relationship is going to have on the couple. That is not going to bode well, especially, if one or both parties are paranoid. Worrying about the relationship is fine. However, one must not dwell too much on one's paranoia. Trust can do a lot of wonders for the relationship. Paranoia and suspicion might just as well kill the fire that is burning in the relationship.
One might be overly attracted and interested to his/her partner. However, the relationship can die quickly if trust is not present. One must remember that online dating makes it possible for an individual to become anonymous. Therefore, that fact alone could make a person worry or get paranoid if the person, whom she is dating online, is being a true person and not just a fraud. This goes without saying that such a scenario is one of the causes for concern among couples all over the world. Lack of trust goes both ways. If the man does not trust his partners, then the woman would most probably wonder why on earth she should trust a man who doesn't trust her. Given that scenario, a relationship can be predicted to end in doom sake. Now, one should never fear. There are several ways that a woman can earn the trust of a man.
The first thing to be done is for the woman to be transparent. However, it must be reiterated that mystery should still be a part of the relationship. This is to ensure that the couple won't get bored with each other because of too much predictability. It doesn't hurt to be open and honest to one's partner. However, a woman should learn when she should stop confiding. She should know whether she has said too much or if she hasn't said anything at all. In return, the man will learn to open up, too. It's just a matter of give and take.
Men like it when they feel all masculine around the woman. As much as possible, men want to be always there for their woman. So, it would be utterly all right for the women to show that there are things that they cannot do. Rest assured, the men won't find the women weak. In fact, they will try to do everything in their power to assist the woman that they like. That's how the male ego works. They feel so much better when they know that they have done something for the woman. So, the women are advised to indulge the ego of their partners. Ask for their opinion. Show them that they matter. Make them feel that their opinion counts. Also, women are advised to make their partners feel that they can be counted on, when the man needs someone to talk to, or just a shoulder to lean on. Men are typically not the type to confide so much in a woman. Therefore, it can be said that the woman has earned her man's trust when the man is comfortable about sharing his problems with his woman. Ladies are advised to lessen any inhibitions that they might have. Show the men that their judgment and intentions are trusted. In return, the men will do the same.
Internet dating is synonymous to bouts of anonymity. One must confess that pretending to be someone that he/she is not can be quite a tempting offer. However, pretensions will never get a person anywhere, be it in relationships or not. Thus, everyone is advised to stick to the facts. It is true that women have vivid imagination. However, they should not let themselves be carried away by their stories. A woman might be telling stories that may never have happened, just for the sake of having a conversation going on. Now, such a scenario must definitely be avoided. Men do have sharp memories. Men can really remember everything that a woman has said, most especially, if he is interested in what the woman has to say. One can just imagine the woman's dilemma if the man noticed that some of her stories aren't true. How on earth can the woman explain to her man that she just got carried away? Of course, it wouldn't be surprising if the man thought that the woman was downright lying. Thus, women and men should be careful when telling stories. People should think before they speak. In this way, complications for the relationship will not follow because neither of the parties involved twisted the true story.
Of course, one of the best ways that a woman can earn the trust of the man is by showing him how much she truly cares for her man. A woman can do this by checking on her man every so often. The man will feel that his woman is always thinking of him and no one else. Say for example that the man is sick. What the woman could do is to send her man an email or e-card telling him to get well soon. Also, a woman could show her feelings for a man is by being a lover and a friend at the same time. This means that the women should always act naturally towards a man. In this manner, the man won't feel that the woman is just pretending to be nice to him.
Lastly, a woman giving a man copies of her latest photos can somehow earn the trust of the man. This act will tell the man that the woman isn't hiding anything, not even her face, or her personality. Women may give their number to the man if she is already comfortable with him and if she is confident that the man himself is trustworthy. Giving one's contact number will give the impression that the woman is saying who she really is. Besides, it will only show that the woman is ready to have serious talks with the man, outside of the internet world. From there, it is possible that the man will see the relationship in a whole new level.
Women should be reminded that trust is hard to earn, but easy to lose. Thus, one should take care not to ruin the trust that the guy has given her. The guy may be thousands of miles away. However, it is not right for the woman to think that she can fool around since her man is away. It is true that there are some men who are just after sex. However, not all men are like that. Women should still remember that there are still knights-in-shining-armor who would do anything to rescue a damsel in distress. So, women should stay away from trouble and any temptations lurking nearby. She just might lose a guy who could have taken very good care of her.
