Making the Man Fall For You
Getting a man's attention is hard. Well, that is if women do not know what to do. They say that men and women come from two different planets. However, that doesn't entirely mean that the worlds of men and women are not going to meet. Just as much as women value men's personalities, so do the men. It is, therefore, important for the woman to show the man her several wonderful characteristics. Men look for more than physical appearance. Although, beauty does play a part in the dating scene. However, what's most important is the values and personality that a woman has. In fact, men would rather go for a simple woman with a bubbly and caring personality; rather than a woman fit to be a supermodel, but who has a very stiff behavior. Men would find such types of women a bore. Men crave for spontaneity. They want some fun, action, and warmth in their lives. If women are too prissy and too inhibited, there is a big chance that men would lose interest. With online dating, women can be spontaneous too. This can be done by putting pictures that show the woman having a grand time with her friends, or maybe the woman can put pictures of her playing with her puppy. There are several ways that a woman can show her spontaneity. She just has to make her creative juices flow and cook up a way in which she can show the man just how spontaneous she can get. Also, one can follow the tips below to try and see if the woman can lure the man nearer to her.
Knowing that online dating takes place in a social networking site, interacting with members of the opposite sex is done by chatting, sending emails, and the like. In other words, the use of words is very important. One should be careful with the words that he/she chooses so that the concept of what he/she is trying to say will not be misunderstood. Interaction between the members of the dating site are usually done in real time, especially if the chat system is employed. It is all right for both parties not to answer immediately. In fact, the women are advised to take their time before they answer the questions of the man. The right words uttered out of one's mouth will prove to be the woman's success. However, words that are tactlessly spoken could otherwise be her downfall. This is because men hate nags. Therefore, it would bode well for the woman if she knew how to sweeten the words that she tells her man.
Being a good conversationalist follows that a person must know how to be interesting. Not only that, it also means that one should know the right questions to ask. It would be a good idea for women to read up on her prospect's profile. Ladies should take note of the content that is written in the man's profile. A woman could try to remember the man's favorite band, food, automobile, etc. From what she has learned, she could try asking several questions about the man's profile. Doing so will let the man realize that the woman is really interested in her. The man would also be more accommodating and easier to talk to since he will definitely know what answers to give the woman. Besides, the woman will be indulging the man without her knowing it. Men love it when women, or anyone for that matter, ask for their opinion. Once a woman asks about his likes, it would certainly boost a man's esteem and his ego as well. He will try to answer the woman's questions in the best way that he can. It certainly goes without saying that the conversation or rather the exchange of communication between the two will be interesting and spontaneous. Furthermore, the woman will also learn a lot of new things from what the men have to offer.
Women do love sense of humor in a man. As expected, this is what men are looking for in a woman too. So, the women should never fear about laughing at their own mistakes. One might think that it is embarrassing. However, there is a pretty good chance that the guy will find it cute.
However, women should not overdo it. They may laugh or giggle, but they must take care not to laugh too loud. Next is maturity. It is true that men like to baby their girlfriends. However, it is different from handling a woman who always throws tantrums because she could not get her way. A good method to show some maturity is to learn to compromise. If the women cannot get what she desires, then maybe she could ask for something that the guy could afford to share. Also, she should learn how to be sensitive to the needs of the guy. Sure, they may not be a couple yet. However, the guy will see just how much a relationship is worth having with the woman if the latter shows that she does care for him. Thus, there is a good chance that the guy would like to take the friendship to another level.
A woman showing that she cares for the guy can truly make the latter's heart melt. Men would love it if they feel that the world of the woman revolves around them. However, a woman should take care not to overdo it as well. The guy's ego might explode. Also, there is a possibility that the guy will take her for granted if he feels he has the woman at his beck and call. A woman should know how to balance her time. She should have time for the guy and for herself. Her energies must not be spent for the guy alone. She should leave some for herself. She'll need it.
Interacting online, as already mentioned, makes use of word play. In the life outside of the internet, body language plays a big part in flirting with potential romantic partners. However, how can one employ body language in the internet? There comes the problem. Although, it doesn't mean that a woman will have less chance of succeeding in the rounds of flirtation if body language cannot be used. All that is needed is a bit of ingenuity. She must know the proper combination of words to show a guy that she is witty, easy to get along with, up for any games, and still someone who demands respects. Another that a woman should do is to leave the guy yearning for more. It is advisable that she should not answer the guy's emails immediately. Answering the men mails instantly will show the guy that he already has the upper hand. He may even think that the woman has nothing better to do but to go online and wait for people's emails.
Here's another trick that may just work if a woman knows how to play her cards right. She should push the man away. Well, this doesn't mean that the woman should drop the man like a hot potato. It only means that she should allot some time that she will not be replying to a man's messages. However, she should first make sure that the man is already used to their everyday correspondence. After some time, it will do well if the woman just suddenly stops making her presence felt. However, she should only be absent for some time and not for a very long duration. It is basically like making the man miss her. However, it is important for the woman not to warn the man that she will not be texting or emailing him for quite some time. In this way, the man will somehow “worry” what happened with the woman. One should be reminded that this tactic is not about playing with other people's feelings. Moreover, it's measuring how much the man already feels for her. If the man gets worried and does look for her every so often, then it is safe to say that she already has the man for the taking; that is if she wants to. The woman can then send a text message or email to the man saying just how much she has missed him. One can expect sparks to fly in all directions if this is done accurately.
However, one must be sure that she would like to employ the above tactic. Some have been successful, while there are those who failed it. But then, women should look at the bright side. If it doesn't work out, at least the woman knew earlier that the man was not a keeper. She has avoided the risks of getting more emotionally attached to the man. She still comes off as a winner even if she wasn't able to snag the man.
Knowing that online dating takes place in a social networking site, interacting with members of the opposite sex is done by chatting, sending emails, and the like. In other words, the use of words is very important. One should be careful with the words that he/she chooses so that the concept of what he/she is trying to say will not be misunderstood. Interaction between the members of the dating site are usually done in real time, especially if the chat system is employed. It is all right for both parties not to answer immediately. In fact, the women are advised to take their time before they answer the questions of the man. The right words uttered out of one's mouth will prove to be the woman's success. However, words that are tactlessly spoken could otherwise be her downfall. This is because men hate nags. Therefore, it would bode well for the woman if she knew how to sweeten the words that she tells her man.
Being a good conversationalist follows that a person must know how to be interesting. Not only that, it also means that one should know the right questions to ask. It would be a good idea for women to read up on her prospect's profile. Ladies should take note of the content that is written in the man's profile. A woman could try to remember the man's favorite band, food, automobile, etc. From what she has learned, she could try asking several questions about the man's profile. Doing so will let the man realize that the woman is really interested in her. The man would also be more accommodating and easier to talk to since he will definitely know what answers to give the woman. Besides, the woman will be indulging the man without her knowing it. Men love it when women, or anyone for that matter, ask for their opinion. Once a woman asks about his likes, it would certainly boost a man's esteem and his ego as well. He will try to answer the woman's questions in the best way that he can. It certainly goes without saying that the conversation or rather the exchange of communication between the two will be interesting and spontaneous. Furthermore, the woman will also learn a lot of new things from what the men have to offer.
Women do love sense of humor in a man. As expected, this is what men are looking for in a woman too. So, the women should never fear about laughing at their own mistakes. One might think that it is embarrassing. However, there is a pretty good chance that the guy will find it cute.
However, women should not overdo it. They may laugh or giggle, but they must take care not to laugh too loud. Next is maturity. It is true that men like to baby their girlfriends. However, it is different from handling a woman who always throws tantrums because she could not get her way. A good method to show some maturity is to learn to compromise. If the women cannot get what she desires, then maybe she could ask for something that the guy could afford to share. Also, she should learn how to be sensitive to the needs of the guy. Sure, they may not be a couple yet. However, the guy will see just how much a relationship is worth having with the woman if the latter shows that she does care for him. Thus, there is a good chance that the guy would like to take the friendship to another level.
A woman showing that she cares for the guy can truly make the latter's heart melt. Men would love it if they feel that the world of the woman revolves around them. However, a woman should take care not to overdo it as well. The guy's ego might explode. Also, there is a possibility that the guy will take her for granted if he feels he has the woman at his beck and call. A woman should know how to balance her time. She should have time for the guy and for herself. Her energies must not be spent for the guy alone. She should leave some for herself. She'll need it.
Interacting online, as already mentioned, makes use of word play. In the life outside of the internet, body language plays a big part in flirting with potential romantic partners. However, how can one employ body language in the internet? There comes the problem. Although, it doesn't mean that a woman will have less chance of succeeding in the rounds of flirtation if body language cannot be used. All that is needed is a bit of ingenuity. She must know the proper combination of words to show a guy that she is witty, easy to get along with, up for any games, and still someone who demands respects. Another that a woman should do is to leave the guy yearning for more. It is advisable that she should not answer the guy's emails immediately. Answering the men mails instantly will show the guy that he already has the upper hand. He may even think that the woman has nothing better to do but to go online and wait for people's emails.
Here's another trick that may just work if a woman knows how to play her cards right. She should push the man away. Well, this doesn't mean that the woman should drop the man like a hot potato. It only means that she should allot some time that she will not be replying to a man's messages. However, she should first make sure that the man is already used to their everyday correspondence. After some time, it will do well if the woman just suddenly stops making her presence felt. However, she should only be absent for some time and not for a very long duration. It is basically like making the man miss her. However, it is important for the woman not to warn the man that she will not be texting or emailing him for quite some time. In this way, the man will somehow “worry” what happened with the woman. One should be reminded that this tactic is not about playing with other people's feelings. Moreover, it's measuring how much the man already feels for her. If the man gets worried and does look for her every so often, then it is safe to say that she already has the man for the taking; that is if she wants to. The woman can then send a text message or email to the man saying just how much she has missed him. One can expect sparks to fly in all directions if this is done accurately.
However, one must be sure that she would like to employ the above tactic. Some have been successful, while there are those who failed it. But then, women should look at the bright side. If it doesn't work out, at least the woman knew earlier that the man was not a keeper. She has avoided the risks of getting more emotionally attached to the man. She still comes off as a winner even if she wasn't able to snag the man.
